Am I being loved? Friends are the best friends given to us. Friendship
both gives and receives and they appreciate more and more. What is my style of
being a friend? Am I shy? Am I showing off? Am I too proud? Friendship is a
bond that is shared lovingly. Friends make you feel at ease when you are in
their presence. Selfishness --- we mostly think of our self than to think of
others and thus it creates a problem in ones friendship do I have Christ as my friend
and the center of my life?
Am I ready to lay down my life for my beloved friend
for a good cause? This really doesn’t have a need to think of it just comes
from within. E.g. you friend falls in the river you wont think should I jump or
not. Ah! If you think so a question is there in your conscience is he my good
friend suppose he’s your bests friend you wont think but you will jump and
without thinking but if you don’t jump there’s selfishness in you. Where you
think of your life I don’t say don’t do these things but it’s the need of the
hour for your friend. Some people just jump without thinking if may be at times
for the cause of humanity. We can take Jesus example one sold him for 30 pieces
of silver, yet another denied him thrice the he doesn’t even know him and some
ran away but Jesus didn’t break the friendship with his disciples. This is how
our friendship should be. How is my friendship do I consider all as my friends
or do I have some choosy friends? Am I open to others? Am I trustworthy to the
secrets that my friends have told me? Am I a friend who allows my friend in
doing wrong or do I stand for truth? That’s real good friends. I stand for
truth even though I know that I will loose my friendship but I want the good of
my friend. A friend helps to grow; he encourages me in doing a lot of things
and to grab opportunities. Modern psychology says ‘a person should have at least
one best friend whom one can open up ones heart and be intimate.
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